MEN WHO CANNOT GO HOME

About This Book

He is not stuck in traffic. He is sitting in his car outside his own house, engine off, not ready to go in. And somewhere behind that front door, she is wondering what she did wrong. Men Who Cannot Go Home is a raw, honest, and deeply practical examination of one of the most common and least spoken-about crises in modern marriage: the man who has stopped wanting to come home. This book does not offer comfortable answers. It does not assign all the blame to one person or flatter either party with the version of the truth they prefer. It names what is actually happening: the noise men are avoiding, the safety women have stopped providing, the drift that happens without anyone deciding it, the religion that makes things worse, and the specific, practical work of rebuilding a home that both people actually want to live in. Written for the man sitting in the driveway and the woman still holding the light on inside, this book is for every marriage that has not yet become what it was supposed to be.